First off, breathe. If you’re here, chances are you’re either going through a divorce, thinking about it, or still processing the emotional rollercoaster that just derailed your life. And let’s be real, divorce sucks. But you know what sucks more? Losing yourself in the process.
Divorce in Islam isn’t a life sentence to misery; it’s actually a test, a reset, and (believe it or not) sometimes, a blessing in disguise. And who better to turn to for guidance than our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)? His words hold the wisdom you need to get through this storm like the queen that you are.
Here are 10 Hadith to help you keep your head up, your heart strong, and your eyeliner intact.
1. You Are Not “Less” Because You’re Divorced
“The most complete of the believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are those who are best to their women.” (Tirmidhi 1162)
Girl, if he wasn’t treating you right, you are not the failure here. Islam values women immensely, and no, your worth is not determined by your marital status. If he didn’t appreciate you, that’s on him. Your glow-up is coming.
2. It’s Okay to Cry, But Don’t Drown
“Verily, with hardship comes ease.” (Quran 94:6)
Ugly cry all you want, but remember, it’s temporary. Allah Himself promised that ease follows hardship, not the other way around. Meaning? Your comeback season is just around the corner.
3. Being Single Doesn’t Mean You’re Alone
“Allah is with the patient.” (Quran 2:153)
Your DMs might be dry, but your connection with Allah? That’s 24/7. Strengthen that bond. Trust me, He’s a better listener than your ex ever was.
4. People Will Talk. Let Them.
“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent.” (Bukhari 6018)
Aunties will gossip. “Concerned” friends will pry. Some will make it their mission to remind you of your “broken” status. Guess what? That’s their problem. Your job? Keep moving forward like the unbothered queen you are.
5. Make Dua Like You’re Ordering at a Fancy Restaurant
“Call upon Me; I will respond to you.” (Quran 40:60)
Allah is literally telling you to ask for what you want! A better future, peace of mind, even a husband upgrade (if you’re into that). So go ahead, place your order.
6. Healing Isn’t Instant, And That’s Okay
“Indeed, Allah loves those who rely upon Him.” (Quran 3:159)
Your heart won’t mend overnight. Healing takes time, faith, and sometimes, a new skincare routine. But Allah’s got you, and trust me, He knows what He’s doing.
7. Your Next Chapter Might Be the Best One Yet
“Perhaps you dislike a thing and it is good for you.” (Quran 2:216)
You thought this marriage was the plan, but Allah had a better one. What if your best life is still ahead of you? Plot twist: It probably is.
8. Self-Care Is Not Haram
“Your body has a right over you.” (Bukhari 5199)
Get that massage. Take that trip. Buy that halal, cruelty-free lipstick. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish, it’s Sunnah.
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9. Keep Your Circle Strong & Drama-Free
“A person is upon the religion of their close friend.” (Tirmidhi 2378)
Surround yourself with women who remind you of your strength, not those who keep you stuck in the past. Your circle should hype you up, not drain you.
10. Your Future is in Allah’s Hands, and That’s the Best Place for It
“Tawakkul (trust in Allah) gives peace to the heart.” (Tirmidhi 2344)
Worried about the future? Don’t be. Trusting Allah means knowing that whatever’s coming next is exactly what you need.
Over to You…
Divorce isn’t the end, it’s the beginning of something new. So, tell me: which of these hadith hit home for you the most? Or, if you have your own go-to ayah or hadith for tough times, drop it in the comments! Let’s uplift each other.