Ladies, let’s talk marriage. You said “Qabool” with all the butterflies, posted your aesthetic Nikkah pics, and now… reality hits. He leaves wet towels on the bed. You can’t agree on where to order takeout. And somehow, love languages don’t translate into actual communication.
But before you start side-eyeing him during Jummah khutbah, let’s rewind. The Prophet ﷺ built marriages that thrived, not just survived. So if you want a love story that’s halal and built to last, let’s take notes from the Sunnah!
1. Love Like the Prophet ﷺ Did (Hint: A LOT!)
Our Prophet ﷺ wasn’t about that bare minimum life. He called Aisha (RA) sweet nicknames, raced her (and let her win!), and expressed love openly. He said, “The best of you are those who are best to their wives” (Tirmidhi).
Translation? Text him first. Say “I love you” (yes, even when he’s annoying). Give hugs. Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a verb. Do the small things. Because the little acts of love? They add up.
2. Master the Art of Sabr (Because No One’s Perfect, Sis)
You love him. But does he load the dishwasher wrong? Yes. Will he ever understand the difference between mint green and sage? Probably not.
Marriage = daily doses of patience. The Prophet ﷺ showed us that even with the best spouse, there are moments of frustration. Instead of snapping, he practiced sabr and kindness. The reward? Jannah-tier love.
So next time you’re about to unleash a TED Talk on why socks belong IN the laundry basket, breathe. Ask yourself: Is this worth the argument? Spoiler: It’s probably not.
3. Keep the Spark Alive (Yes, Even After Kids & Chaos)
Just because you’re married doesn’t mean date nights stop. The Prophet ﷺ spent quality time with his wives. He talked, laughed, and made them feel special.
So, schedule that date night. If babysitters are a myth, have a late-night dessert date at home. Bonus points if you wear perfume and a cute outfit (yes, even if no one else is seeing you but him!). Love thrives when nurtured, don’t let routine kill the romance.
4. Communicate Like a Queen (Without the Drama)
You know what’s not cute? Silent treatments, passive-aggressiveness, and assuming he can read minds. (Sis, he cannot. He barely remembers where he left his keys.)
The Prophet ﷺ communicated with clarity and gentleness. When Aisha (RA) was upset, he noticed and addressed it without dismissing her feelings.
So, talk it out. Instead of “You never help me!” try “I’d love it if you could help with dinner tonight.” Be clear. Be kind. Be a queen about it.
5. Forgive & Forget (Because Grudges = Relationship Killers)
Marriage means seeing each other’s flaws up close, and loving anyway. The Prophet ﷺ said, “The most complete believers in faith are those with the best character” (Tirmidhi).
Holding onto resentment? Heavy baggage, sis. The sooner you let go of the little things, the lighter your heart (and marriage) will feel.
6. Pray Together, Stay Together
Nothing bonds hearts like faith. The Prophet ﷺ prayed Tahajjud with his wives. Imagine the peace of standing side by side, hands raised, asking Allah to bless your marriage. Power couple goals.
If your love life needs a reset, start with dua. Even when you’re upset, whisper a prayer for him. It softens hearts in ways words never can.
7. Give Gifts (Even If It’s Just His Favorite Snack)
The Prophet ﷺ said, “Give gifts, and you will love one another” (Bukhari). Gifts don’t have to be big, a love note, his favorite snack, or even a new attar can do wonders.
Speaking of which, if you want to upgrade your marriage game, check out this Islamic couples journal that helps you reconnect with faith & love. It’s filled with guided reflections, dua prompts, and space for cute notes, basically, the ultimate Sunnah-inspired love booster!
Final Thoughts: Build Love, Brick by Brick
Marriage isn’t a Disney fairytale, it’s real, raw, and rewarding. It takes work, patience, and a lot of love. But when built on faith and Sunnah, it’s a source of peace, not stress.
So tell me, which of these Sunnah-inspired tips will you try first? Drop your thoughts below!