Picture this: You’re bending over backward to please everyone, family, friends, that one guy who still can’t text back in a timely manner, but where’s the love for you? Sis, let’s get one thing straight: Islam already gave you VIP status, and it’s about time you started acting like it!
Here are 8 divine reasons from the Quran that prove why you should prioritize yourself, because, let’s be real, no one else will do it for you.
1. You Are More Precious Than Diamonds (No, Really!)
Allah says:
“And do not wish for that by which Allah has made some of you exceed others…” (Quran 4:32)
Translation? Stop comparing yourself to that influencer with the perfect hijab folds. Your worth is not measured by likes or society’s impossible standards. Allah made you uniquely valuable. Own it.
2. You Deserve Respect, Demand It!
Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:
“The best of you are those who are best to their women.” (Tirmidhi 1162)
Sis, if someone treats you like an option, remind yourself that you are no one’s second choice. Islam honors women, you don’t need to settle for anyone who doesn’t.
3. Prioritizing Yourself Isn’t Selfish, It’s Sunnah!
The Prophet (SAW) taught us the importance of balance, and that includes taking care of yourself first! Even he rested when needed. If you’re constantly exhausted trying to be everything for everyone, take this as your divine sign to slow down.
4. Allah Will Hold You Accountable, Not Society
“No soul shall bear the burden of another.” (Quran 6:164)
Guess what? On Judgment Day, you’re standing solo in front of Allah. Not your relatives, not your nosy aunties, and certainly not that toxic friend who guilt-tripped you into yet another favor. Put your well-being first.
5. Your Voice Matters, Speak Up!
“And speak to people in a good way…” (Quran 2:83)
Islam does not tell women to be silent doormats. Your thoughts, feelings, and opinions are valid. If someone makes you feel small, remind them (and yourself) that your voice deserves to be heard.
6. Emotional Health Is Also Worship
Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:
“Your body has a right over you.” (Bukhari 5199)
That includes your mental and emotional health! If a situation, relationship, or lifestyle is draining you, Islam literally encourages you to protect your peace. Therapy? Self-care? That halal skincare routine? All valid.
7. Toxic People? Cut ‘Em Off (Yes, Even If They’re Relatives)
“And those who avoid the major sins and immoralities, and when they are angry, they forgive.” (Quran 42:37)
Forgiveness is important, but that doesn’t mean tolerating endless negativity. Islam encourages forgiveness, but also boundaries. If someone consistently disrespects you, distance is also an act of self-respect.
8. Invest in Yourself, It’s a Form of Gratitude!
“Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (Quran 13:11)
Translation? Level up, sis. Whether it’s learning a new skill, growing spiritually, or upgrading your mindset, self-investment is a form of thanking Allah for the blessings He gave you.
Ready to Start Valuing Yourself? Here’s Your Next Step:
Let’s be honest, implementing all this isn’t always easy. But guess what? You’re not alone!
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What’s one lesson from the Quran that reminds you to value yourself? Drop it in the comments below!