Ladies, let’s be real. You’re here because you want that kind of love, the halal, butterfly-inducing, dua-answered, “he-can’t-take-his-eyes-off-me” kind of love. And guess what? Islam already gave us the cheat codes!
The Sunnah isn’t just about prayer and fasting; it’s also the ultimate relationship handbook. So, if you want your future husband to fall for you harder than he falls asleep after iftar, buckle up. Here are 9 Sunnah-inspired tips to make him obsessed with you (in a totally respectful, Islamic way, of course).
1. Smell Like Jannah Itself
Before he falls in love with your personality (which, obviously, is dazzling), let’s make sure he’s captivated by your scent. The Prophet (ﷺ) loved pleasant fragrances (Tirmidhi), and ladies, let’s be honest, good perfume is a game-changer. Invest in a non-alcoholic, long-lasting attar that’ll make him wonder if he just walked into Jannah.
Pro-tip: Musk and rose-based attars = sunnah-certified enchantment.
2. Master the Art of the Sunnah Smile
You know what’s more powerful than a thousand love spells? A genuine, heartwarming smile. The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Your smile for your brother is charity.” (Tirmidhi) Imagine how much more rewarding it is when it’s for your future husband?
Homework: Practice in the mirror until you’ve got that “I’m happy, mysterious, and effortlessly adorable” smile locked down.
3. Cook Like Khadijah, Serve Like Ayesha
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. But sis, we’re taking it up a notch. The Prophet (ﷺ) loved simple yet delicious meals, so no need to stress over Michelin-star skills. Just master one killer dish, and watch him melt.
Need inspo? The Prophet (ﷺ) loved thareed (a meat and bread dish). Maybe try making a modern version with a touch of romance?
4. Give Compliments Like a Boss
Men love feeling admired, and guess what? So do you! The Prophet (ﷺ) was never shy about praising his wives (Ayesha رضي الله عنها once raced him, and he never let her forget when he won!). So, don’t hold back.
Say things like:
- “MashAllah, you have such strong iman!”
- “I love how thoughtful you are.”
- “Wow, you look so handsome when you pray Fajr on time.” (Subtle, right?)
5. Channel Your Inner Khadijah رضي الله عنها (AKA: Be His Peace)
Your man deals with enough stress out in the world, make your presence his safe space. The Prophet (ﷺ) found comfort in Khadijah رضي الله عنها during the hardest moments of his life. Be the woman he can turn to, not run from.
That means: Less drama, more dua. Less complaining, more listening. Less “you never take me out,” more “I appreciate the little things you do.”
6. Dua is Your Secret Weapon
Sister, forget all the TikTok love hacks, dua is the real deal. Ask Allah to place love and sakinah (tranquility) between you and your future husband. It’s literally in the Quran:
“And He placed between you affection and mercy…” (Surah Ar-Rum 30:21)
Action step: Start making dua for him now, even before you meet him. Trust me, future-you will thank present-you.
7. Embrace the “Sunnah Glow-Up”
Sis, self-care is Sunnah! Ayesha رضي الله عنها used to beautify herself for the Prophet (ﷺ), and you should too. That means skincare, hair care, and dressing well, even at home.
Product recommendation: Try using miswak for naturally whiter teeth and a halal skincare routine for that no-makeup, “I-woke-up-like-this” glow.
8. Don’t Be a Drama Queen (Seriously, Just Don’t)
There’s playful teasing (cute), and then there’s unnecessary drama (not cute). Ayesha رضي الله عنها playfully tested the Prophet’s patience, but she also knew when to chill.
How to avoid unnecessary fights:
- Don’t sweat the small stuff.
- Speak with love, not just about love.
- When in doubt, follow the golden rule: If it won’t matter in a week, let it go.
9. Be His Best Friend First
Romance is great, but friendship? That’s what keeps the spark alive. The Prophet (ﷺ) and Ayesha رضي الله عنها had the cutest friendship, they raced each other, played together, and shared deep conversations.
Your move: Find a hobby you both love, have inside jokes, and always make room for playful moments.
Final Thoughts: Love, But Make It Sunnah
Marriage isn’t about tricks or manipulation. It’s about following the Prophet’s (ﷺ) example to build a love that lasts in this life and the next. So, apply these Sunnah-approved love hacks, and inshaAllah, you’ll be the kind of wife he thanks Allah for every single day.