Let’s be real, ladies. Marriage in 2025 is NOT easy. Between TikTok arguments, work stress, and the never-ending WhatsApp messages from aunties asking, When is the baby coming?, it’s a lot. But you know who mastered the art of keeping his wife happy over 1400 years ago? The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), the ultimate husband goals!
If your man thinks “I love you” once a year is enough or that his idea of romance is a new air fryer, it’s time to introduce him to the Sunnah of Love. Grab your chai, sis, because we’re diving into 9 things the Prophet (ﷺ) did to keep his wives smiling.
1. He Said “I Love You” (And Meant It)
Yes, verbal affirmations matter! The Prophet (ﷺ) openly expressed love for his wives. When asked who he loved most, he didn’t say, “Umm… football?” He said, Aisha. (Tirmidhi)
If your man struggles with romantic expressions, show him this Sunnah. A simple “I love you” (or at least “I appreciate you”) can make a HUGE difference.
2. He Gave Cute Nicknames
The Prophet (ﷺ) called Aisha “Humayrah” (little rosy-cheeked one). Imagine getting a cute nickname instead of just “Oi” or “Wife”?
Next time he calls you by your full name like you’re in trouble, remind him: nicknames = romance.
3. He Listened (Like, Actually Listened)
Ladies, how often do we rant about work, family drama, or how influencers are now selling overpriced water bottles, and all we get is a distracted “hmm” while he scrolls his phone?
The Prophet (ﷺ) was a king at active listening. He gave his full attention to his wives, showing genuine care. Time to pull out this Sunnah next time he zones out!
4. He Helped Around the House
Yes, the Prophet (ﷺ) helped with chores. (Bukhari) So, if your man still thinks dishes and laundry are “women’s work,” he needs a reality check.
A little effort, folding clothes, making tea, or (gasp!) using the vacuum, goes a long way. Plus, helping your wife = following the Sunnah = blessings!
5. He Shared Food (Not Just Stole It!)
You know when you FINALLY sit down with a snack, and suddenly, he wants a bite? The Prophet (ﷺ) also shared food, but in a cute, romantic way. He’d eat from the same spot as Aisha (RA) and even sip from her cup. (Muslim)
So, next time he reaches for your fries, remind him: Sharing is Sunnah, stealing is not.
6. He Was Playful & Fun
Marriage isn’t just bills and grocery lists, it’s about joy! The Prophet (ﷺ) raced with Aisha (RA) and joked with his wives. (Abu Dawood)
Life is stressful enough, if he can joke with his friends for hours, he can laugh with you too. Game night, road trip karaoke, or just silly banter, it all strengthens love.
7. He Defended His Wives
Ever had a family member say something rude about you, and your husband just sat there like a silent potato? Not the Prophet (ﷺ)! When someone insulted Aisha (RA), he immediately defended her. (Bukhari)
Real love means standing up for your wife, even in front of family.
8. He Showed Affection Publicly (Within Limits!)
No, I’m not talking about cringey TikTok couple videos. But the Prophet (ﷺ) would hold his wives’ hands, and he didn’t shy away from showing love in a halal way.
So, if your man refuses to even walk next to you in public, remind him: a little hand-holding = big Sunnah points.
9. He Made Du’a for His Wife
If he can pray for a new car or for his team to win, he can pray for you. The Prophet (ﷺ) made du’a for his wives, seeking Allah’s blessings for them. (Ibn Majah)
Start a habit of making du’a for each other, it’s the easiest and most powerful way to strengthen your love.
Final Thoughts: Sunnah = Happy Wife, Happy Life
If your husband already does all these, MashaAllah, you got yourself a gem! But if not… well, time for a loving reminder.
Which of these points resonated with you most? Have any Sunnah-based marriage tips? Share in the comments below! And if you’re looking for a thoughtful gift to encourage Sunnah-style romance, check out [insert product recommendation here], because love is in the little things.