Marriage is all rainbows and butterflies… until you realize your spouse leaves wet towels on the bed. But guess what? Islam’s got your back! The Sunnah is packed with marriage advice that’s not only practical but also incredibly sweet. Ready to discover the secrets to a happier, stronger marriage straight from the Sunnah? Buckle up, sis!
1. Express Love Often , Even If It’s Cringe-Worthy
We all know the classic “I love you” text, but the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) took it to another level. He didn’t shy away from expressing his love for his wives, especially Aisha (RA). When he was asked who he loved most, he straight-up said, “Aisha.” (Sahih Bukhari) I mean, talk about couple goals! Moral of the story? Tell your spouse you love them, even if it feels cheesy. Cheesy is halal.
2. Help Each Other Out , Yes, That Includes House Chores!
Sisters, if your husband thinks chores are a “woman’s job,” kindly show him the door, right after reminding him of the Sunnah. The Prophet (PBUH) helped his wives with housework (Sahih Bukhari). So, the next time your husband watches you struggle with laundry, just throw in a “Sunnah reminder,” and watch the magic happen.
3. Playful Banter & Jokes , Because Being Boring Is Haram (Okay, Maybe Not)
Marriage isn’t meant to be all lectures and serious talks. The Prophet (PBUH) was playful with his wives. He even raced Aisha (RA), and she won! (Sunan Abi Dawood) So, don’t be afraid to unleash your inner stand-up comedian. Laughter strengthens bonds, and hey, it’s calorie-free!
4. Respect & Kindness , It’s Not Optional, Sis
Sometimes, it’s easier to be kinder to strangers than your own spouse. But the Prophet (PBUH) said, “The best of you are the best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi) Translation: If you’re rolling your eyes more than you’re showing kindness, it’s time to recalibrate.
5. Give Gifts , Even If It’s Just A Chocolate Bar
Giving gifts isn’t about breaking the bank. It’s about making your spouse feel appreciated. The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Give gifts, for it strengthens love.” (Al-Adab Al-Mufrad) So, yes, that random Snickers bar you buy for him on your way home counts. Brownie points: unlocked.
6. Don’t Air Your Dirty Laundry , Like, Ever
It’s one thing to joke about your husband’s snoring; it’s another to broadcast his deepest flaws to the whole world. The Prophet (PBUH) taught us to protect our spouse’s privacy. (Sahih Muslim) So, the next time you feel like venting, maybe try dua instead of Instagram.
7. Never Stop Making Dua For Each Other
At the end of the day, no marriage is perfect. The real glue is your sincere dua for one another. The Prophet (PBUH) made dua for his wives, asking Allah to keep them guided and protected. Just imagine the barakah that could bring into your marriage!
Final Thoughts:
Marriage isn’t all sunshine and dates, but it’s also not meant to be a battlefield. Following the Sunnah can transform your marriage from “meh” to magnificent. Now, go give your spouse a compliment, and try not to cringe when you do it.